Friends are a form of relationship built
on different types of love. When man and woman joins in love
and relationship, intimacy labors throughout the
arrangement, however in friendship a different type of
intimacy exists that makes the relationship work. Friendship,
as intimate relationships work with the exception that sex
is not in the arrangement in some instances. Some friends
join in friendship and later commit to sexual relations,
thus leading to commitment or else separation.
Friendships that are long lasting usually
have the ingredients to make the relationship work. Friends
may cause each other agitation, frustration, or
unintentional harm down the road in the relationship, yet
the two will work together to make it work by finding a
resolve.
Friendship is a form of commitment between
two or more people, and often friends join in activities,
entertainment, and communication. True friends will prove
true to the end of the relationship. Friends will not
interfere with each other’s life, unless the friend sees the
need to address an issue that is causing the friend harm, or
in the making of causing him/her harm.
True friends in love and relationships
will not hold back any punches when addressing issues with
friends. While the friend will not hold back any punches, he/she
will use consideration of the person’s feelings and emotions
when addressing issues. Friends have your back, which is a
symbol of love displayed on their part, and friends that
endure throughout the trials and tribulations of the
relationship, show love since long-suffering and
self-control are visual.
Friends in love and relationship may fight
at times, but both parties will apologize for his/her part
that instigated the disagreement. Friends will tell you when
you are wrong, thus again not holding back any punches,
while considering you.
Friends that develop into intimate
relationships, often work through the arrangement regardless
of the storms laid on their plates. Friendship before
intimacy is smart, since the two have an overview of the
others behaviors, habits, personality, skills, et cetera.
Love and relationships built on true
friendship will last through habits, behaviors, personality
flaws, et cetera, providing violence or repeated actions of
inconsideration and disrespect is ongoing.
When mates disrespect each other, or show
inconsideration ongoing, thus, the relationship will fail,
since friendship, love and elements that compose love are
lacking.
Disrespect expands further than most
people think. Thus, learning beliefs, traditions, and
standards is smart when considering love and relationships.
Thus, starting out as friends will help you see through the
person’s behaviors, habits and personality, what makes him
or her up as a person. The makeup of the person will include
an insight of standards, traditions, and beliefs.
Beliefs are tricky, since nowadays
standards are lower than ever, thus beliefs are often
overlying inconsistency and dishonesty. When a person has
lack of evidence to support their beliefs, thus faulty
thinking is underlying the mind.
Beliefs are either concrete or
superficial. To convince me that a person is worth my time,
the person better have some realness in light. Thus,
superficial beliefs rarely stand firm, thus the person is
obviously heading in the wrong direction, and thus the
relationship may or may not last.
As you can see, what determines the
outlook of friendship, love and relationships depends on the
makeup of the persons involved?
What about compatibility, where does it
play in friendship, love and relationships…
Compatibility by definition means to exist
together in agreement. When two people join in agreement the
relationship may or may not last, since down the road can
you determine if one person’s mind will change? People live
life and gain experience and wisdom along the path, thus a
shallow minded person might stumble upon information that
changes his/her mind forever.
Thus, incompatibility according to
definition means to cause a disturbance by inconvenience and
distress. While the definition illustrates a failure down
the road, many relationships built on incompatibility proved
enduring, since down the road minds changed when facts were
gathered leading to convictions.
Thus, conviction is devastating. When you
have truth, you have conviction, thus no one can argue with
you…therefore, relationships can last in friendship and in
love and relationships.